Well, there is this "move to trash" menu item that turns into "really delete" on many file managers. I find it not bad. If you really need it, you will discove

Well, there is this "move to trash" menu item that turns into "really delete" on many file managers. I find it not bad. If you really need it, you will discover it. Otherwise, you can still go to the trash and really delete the file from there. It's safer than having the really delete item by default, and it's there if you need it.