I never understood this kind of position. It's hard to say this without sounding obnoxious, but this kind of position sounds inconsistent. It's not about what

I never understood this kind of position. It's hard to say this without sounding obnoxious, but this kind of position sounds inconsistent. It's not about what you should or shouldn't do, you're free to do what you want; it's just about being consistent with yourself. It's like helping the old lady cross the street because "it's a good thing to do", but then refusing to help the old man cross the street because "why should I give my services for free?".