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True, this matches my experience perfectly, but perhaps the/some ways do exist but haven't been found, or will never be found, because it's too risky to try on
by mistermann 7y ago
True, this matches my experience perfectly, but perhaps the/some ways do exist but haven't been found, or will never be found, because it's too risky to try on an individual basis?
- majos 7y agoCan one of you explain why this is bad for partners? What’s wrong with saying “it’s reasonable for you to be ambitious”?
- nefitty 7y agoIt could be uncharitably interpreted as, "You're not providing the value I expect. You should fix that."
- travisjungroth 7y agoI think I’ve done it and been successful. I think two things are important. It has to come during a time when they’re already talking about their plans. And, it has to obviously come from a place that you think they’re underselling themselves (not that you want to get more from them). “Maybe I should get a job as a data analyst.” “Really? I think you have everything you need to be a data scientist.”
- mistermann 7y agoExactly, various techniques such as this can be successful, and it seems reasonable that there are numerous others. But how might we discover them?