Nope, and I'm not sure I even began to infer that. And also nope, because we ran the gauntlet despite our slightly higher age and subsequent increase in probab

Nope, and I'm not sure I even began to infer that. And also nope, because we ran the gauntlet despite our slightly higher age and subsequent increase in probability of autism (amongst many, may other conditions). As I say, I don't think it's wrong to fear the possibility, and as your post admirably points out, life is inherently full of risks.