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This is why people don't give candidates feedback, FWIW. It's a bit like arguing with a potential romantic partner who doesn't want to go on a second date: You
by wgerard 7y ago
This is why people don't give candidates feedback, FWIW.
It's a bit like arguing with a potential romantic partner who doesn't want to go on a second date: You might win the argument logically, but you're not getting another date unless there was a comical misunderstanding.
- dominotw 7y agopotential romantic partners call the people they reject and tell them why they don't like them? I was asking why gp was doing this ^, seems weird.
- wgerard 7y agoYes, people frequently request justification when they're rejected romantically. This is also why people get ghosted while dating nowadays. Many of the same reasons at play.
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- dominotw 7y ago> Yes, people frequently request justification when they're rejected romantically. But I am asking do ppl respond to this with a phone call detailing the reasons behind their rejection. Why was OP doing it. His problem could've been simply solved by setting the expectation that his analysis was not up for debate.
- catalogia 7y ago> people frequently request justification when they're rejected romantically. This is also why people get ghosted while dating nowadays. I'm not sure I understand this. I'm under the impression that ghosting people while dating is a newish phenomenon. Is requesting justifications a similarly newish thing? If one didn't change, why would the other? It doesn't seem like we've gotten to the root of the matter.
- rsynnott 7y agoNot sure how you're defining newish. It was routinely used as a storyline in 80s and 90s sitcoms (shows up a lot in Seinfeld, say) and I don't think it was new then.