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Please take this as friendly. It sounds like maybe you're setting your expectations too high, and not giving other women a chance. In my experience women take w

Please take this as friendly. It sounds like maybe you're setting your expectations too high, and not giving other women a chance. In my experience women take what you write in your profile seriously. Spend what you would consider an inordinate amount of time perfecting it, like you would a resume for big job prospect. Get great photos taken of yourself, this doesn't require money or a professional service. Find good light, take lots, use the best of them. Grainy, poorly lit, unflattering photos will be dismissed quickly. Don't make them all selfies. You want to show off your best features, and what makes you, well you. But seriously, work on what you say in your profile. Nearly every response I get from a woman, is about how well my profile is written.

throwno 7y ago
Tinder: LinkedIn for sex! Modernity is awful. The only good thing is improved medical care and food security. Everything is else is just bad.
- woah 7y ago
  Are you yearning for the days when you would be matched with the one available woman in your village? (She’s your second cousin, btw)
  - throwno 7y ago
    Luckily for me the Catholic Church banned cousin marriages and arranged marriages centuries ago. But, yeah, I suppose for people outside of the occident applying for sex on a website as if you are applying for a coding job might be an improvement.
Mirioron 7y ago
You still need to be somewhat attractive for all of this to matter. Not everyone is.
- n0rbwah 7y ago
  Not really a serious advice but there it is: if you can fix some of it with some light photoshopping, do it. Plenty of women do it too and for many of them it's not at all light. Think of it as polishing your CV by omitting some embarrassing stuff and putting forwards the things you want. Your goal shouldn't be to be 100% honest when writing your profile/CV. Just to make it enticing enough to get your foot in the door.

throwno 7y ago

Tinder: LinkedIn for sex! Modernity is awful. The only good thing is improved medical care and food security. Everything is else is just bad.

woah 7y ago
Are you yearning for the days when you would be matched with the one available woman in your village? (She’s your second cousin, btw)
- throwno 7y ago
  Luckily for me the Catholic Church banned cousin marriages and arranged marriages centuries ago. But, yeah, I suppose for people outside of the occident applying for sex on a website as if you are applying for a coding job might be an improvement.

Mirioron 7y ago

You still need to be somewhat attractive for all of this to matter. Not everyone is.

n0rbwah 7y ago
Not really a serious advice but there it is: if you can fix some of it with some light photoshopping, do it. Plenty of women do it too and for many of them it's not at all light. Think of it as polishing your CV by omitting some embarrassing stuff and putting forwards the things you want. Your goal shouldn't be to be 100% honest when writing your profile/CV. Just to make it enticing enough to get your foot in the door.