Knowing what you're getting into and having the rest of your life in order are golden, I guess. I resent my wife for sort of slowly forcing it on me with promi

Knowing what you're getting into and having the rest of your life in order are golden, I guess. I resent my wife for sort of slowly forcing it on me with promises of "nothing will change, my mother will help", I also resent myself for falling for it, but I wouldn't trade my daughter for anything in the world. I've come to terms with the duality of being a parent, loving your children and raising them sucking at the same time, something I see non-parents completely unable to understand. Great moments of being a parent, like 10% of the time, and sucking for the rest of 90% of the time. Whenever I tell this to non-parents, they take it like "what, then what's the hype of being a parent, you must be broken somehow" or "there, that's another reason for me not to have children" -- both of which are far, far of from any conclusion I would take.