There’s a lot of self affirmation in these comments. “I knew it was going to suck” so it does suck. We knew we wouldnt be able to do as much but wanted to live

There’s a lot of self affirmation in these comments. “I knew it was going to suck” so it does suck. We knew we wouldnt be able to do as much but wanted to live like we had before kids. 2 kids (3 years and 2 months) later, 3 international vacations (2 more booked next year), 3 new jobs, 3x tc growth, and continuing to push and progress in both careers. And we’re not all that special. Its just a non-defeatest mindset and mutual effort.