You aren’t broken. It’s helpful to remember that suffering is relative, so what other people go through is irrelevant to your current situation. We are all on o

You aren’t broken. It’s helpful to remember that suffering is relative, so what other people go through is irrelevant to your current situation. We are all on our own individual paths. My advice is to do less. It sounds like you are trying to do too much stuff. Why? You are trading off being in a good head space with your kids when they are young to do what? Fix a house? It’s not worth it. Nothing is worth it. You can buy a new house, you can’t buy back time with your kids. Whenever I feel overwhelmed like this I make a list and prioritize it ruthlessly. This happens so often that I make a list daily. Anything outside of the top 5 or so priorities, I ignore or delegage. Oh and if you don’t like working on the house then stop doing it. Improving the house is going to have a marginal improvement. Use your time on things that are going to have a bigger impact.