Ultimately , I guess all you have to consider about having children is how much you need/want "to love" and "be loved in return". Once you have that answer, yo

Ultimately , I guess all you have to consider about having children is how much you need/want "to love" and "be loved in return". Once you have that answer, you can deal with the rest (emotional/financial/relationship/time stability and security [sorted alphabetically for no reason]). Also, props to PG for writing one of the more coherent articles on having children.