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> This is part of the nature vs nurture debate that has been argued for millennia. People try to decide which is more critical. If you read the article, though

> This is part of the nature vs nurture debate that has been argued for millennia. People try to decide which is more critical. If you read the article, though, it isn't. The article claims that sex differences are large; it explicitly makes no claim as to what causes them.

mpweiher 7y ago
Maybe not directly. However, the article does cite the Gender Equality Paradox: "Contrary to what one might expect, for all of these personality effects the sex differences tend to be larger-- not smaller-- in more individualistic, gender-egalitarian countries. " This finding, which apparently surprised and puzzled everyone, is very difficult to square with the idea that it is the societies/cultures that are creating these effects, because then you would expect the correlation to be the other way around. So not a magnitude difference, but a sign difference. Again, that observation, which has been replicated repeatedly with ever larger sample sizes and larger effect sizes, just isn't compatible with a cultural source.
- falcolas 7y ago
  Honestly, it kind of makes sense. If you have the option to be anyone you want to be, you take advantage of that option. There's no reason it would (or should) apply only to jobs, dress, and outward interactions. Let's take a non-gendered example of someone (we'll call them Kris) who loves creating art, but is also capable of being a computer programmer. If Kris lives in a country where being an artist means being poor and mocked, Kris would be smarter to chose the path of a computer programmer. However, if Kris lives in a place where an artist can live a good, and perhaps even a great life, and be encouraged while pursuing that path, why would they go into computer programming? Coming back to the topic at hand, if Kris has the capability of expressing compassion and will not be punished for doing so, why wouldn't Kris do that? A more individualistic and gender-egalitarian country is less likely to punish such expressions of compassion.
  - rowanG077 7y ago
    It makes sense if you believe that men and women generally have different interests. If you believe that the men and women don't generally have different interests it's a paradox.
    - falcolas 7y ago
      I believe this is the case, based on personal observation. Exceptions are everywhere, but: - I know more women who knit than men - I know more men who follow football and basketball than women - I know more women who write novels than men - I know more women who enjoy romance novels than men - I know more men who enjoy horror films than women - I know more women with an interest in fashion than men - I know more men who play computer games than women - I know more women who play cellphone based games than men EDIT: To underscore how exceptions matter: I know how to knit, but I find it interminably boring. I don't follow football; my mom does. I enjoy romance novels and hate horror films. I'm an oft-maligned cis-het male.
      - zozbot234 7y ago
        Knitting is weird, TBH. It seems like the sort of thing you would only enjoy if you managed to enter some 'flow'/'trance'/'hyperfocus' state while doing it, and that seems like something males would experience, far more than females. It's also a highly solitary pursuit that doesn't engage the 'social' brain at all. So what's up with it, how can the average female like it so much?
        CarelessExpert 7y ago
        I'm a self-taught knitter and I also code (though I'm a dude so I can't speak for the female experience). I wouldn't describe knitting as a flow state in the same way. I frequently listen to podcasts, watch movies, listen to music, etc, when I knit. Knitting is... I dunno... rhythmic? Now granted that depends. If I'm working cables or some sort of motif or whatever, it can require a bit of focus. But it's definitely not the same as coding. And if the fabric is simple stockinette or something, I don't even need to look at my hands. It's also not at all solitary unless you want it to be. Knitting circles are a very common thing and I personally love hanging out with my other friends while we each work on projects. In short: my guess is your confusion is mainly borne of a misunderstanding of the hobby. My suggestion? Give it a shot! YouTube has made it easier than ever to learn, and a pair of sticks and a ball of yarn will cost you less than ten bucks. You never know, you might love it!

mpweiher 7y ago

Maybe not directly. However, the article does cite the Gender Equality Paradox: "Contrary to what one might expect, for all of these personality effects the sex differences tend to be larger-- not smaller-- in more individualistic, gender-egalitarian countries. " This finding, which apparently surprised and puzzled everyone, is very difficult to square with the idea that it is the societies/cultures that are creating these effects, because then you would expect the correlation to be the other way around. So not a magnitude difference, but a sign difference. Again, that observation, which has been replicated repeatedly with ever larger sample sizes and larger effect sizes, just isn't compatible with a cultural source.

falcolas 7y ago
Honestly, it kind of makes sense. If you have the option to be anyone you want to be, you take advantage of that option. There's no reason it would (or should) apply only to jobs, dress, and outward interactions. Let's take a non-gendered example of someone (we'll call them Kris) who loves creating art, but is also capable of being a computer programmer. If Kris lives in a country where being an artist means being poor and mocked, Kris would be smarter to chose the path of a computer programmer. However, if Kris lives in a place where an artist can live a good, and perhaps even a great life, and be encouraged while pursuing that path, why would they go into computer programming? Coming back to the topic at hand, if Kris has the capability of expressing compassion and will not be punished for doing so, why wouldn't Kris do that? A more individualistic and gender-egalitarian country is less likely to punish such expressions of compassion.
- rowanG077 7y ago
  It makes sense if you believe that men and women generally have different interests. If you believe that the men and women don't generally have different interests it's a paradox.
  - falcolas 7y ago
    I believe this is the case, based on personal observation. Exceptions are everywhere, but: - I know more women who knit than men - I know more men who follow football and basketball than women - I know more women who write novels than men - I know more women who enjoy romance novels than men - I know more men who enjoy horror films than women - I know more women with an interest in fashion than men - I know more men who play computer games than women - I know more women who play cellphone based games than men EDIT: To underscore how exceptions matter: I know how to knit, but I find it interminably boring. I don't follow football; my mom does. I enjoy romance novels and hate horror films. I'm an oft-maligned cis-het male.
    - zozbot234 7y ago
      Knitting is weird, TBH. It seems like the sort of thing you would only enjoy if you managed to enter some 'flow'/'trance'/'hyperfocus' state while doing it, and that seems like something males would experience, far more than females. It's also a highly solitary pursuit that doesn't engage the 'social' brain at all. So what's up with it, how can the average female like it so much?
      - CarelessExpert 7y ago
        I'm a self-taught knitter and I also code (though I'm a dude so I can't speak for the female experience). I wouldn't describe knitting as a flow state in the same way. I frequently listen to podcasts, watch movies, listen to music, etc, when I knit. Knitting is... I dunno... rhythmic? Now granted that depends. If I'm working cables or some sort of motif or whatever, it can require a bit of focus. But it's definitely not the same as coding. And if the fabric is simple stockinette or something, I don't even need to look at my hands. It's also not at all solitary unless you want it to be. Knitting circles are a very common thing and I personally love hanging out with my other friends while we each work on projects. In short: my guess is your confusion is mainly borne of a misunderstanding of the hobby. My suggestion? Give it a shot! YouTube has made it easier than ever to learn, and a pair of sticks and a ball of yarn will cost you less than ten bucks. You never know, you might love it!