this has happened so much and there are more subtle forms of abuse. Unfortunately even in my family, my mother, who was forced to have some big career gaps due

this has happened so much and there are more subtle forms of abuse. Unfortunately even in my family, my mother, who was forced to have some big career gaps due to 3 kids, had a much lower pension compared to my father and my father considered it to be "fair" that each spends its own pension and split the bills equally. :(