I didn't even know Paul Graham had kids. I don't recall them playing much of a part in his business, his essays, his creations, etc. So how exactly does that s

I didn't even know Paul Graham had kids. I don't recall them playing much of a part in his business, his essays, his creations, etc. So how exactly does that show the biggest problem you have with kids? Alternately, for some reason you laser-focus on the topic for some reason and you can't help but let it fill the entirety of your perception. This appears in Facebook a lot where people complain about baby pictures or anecdotes and somehow ignore the 99.99% of absolutely irrelevant inanity that the rest of their feed is ("Oh you ate at a restaurant...wowwweeeee"). It happens in loud restaurants when people filter out enormous volumes of ambient sound to focus on the sounds of a child sixty feet away. When someone has some sort of hangup about children, it's amazing how large it can appear in their perspective.