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Blindly going to a lawyer can also be a bad advice. From my experience it opens a huge can of worms: first the situation may switch to a full on conflict for ye

by gbin 7y ago

Blindly going to a lawyer can also be a bad advice. From my experience it opens a huge can of worms: first the situation may switch to a full on conflict for years. Your lawyer is incentivized to make you angry and fight to death, open other fronts etc... Another aspect some people might not understand too especially in low litigation countries is that "legal" and "fair" are different concepts. Reserve this kind of misery for when the outcome is actually life defining for you.

chki 7y ago
Your lawyer is incentivized to do what you describe but if they are a good lawyer the won't do that. They will show you possible options of going forward and put you in a decision to decide. The tricky part is probably finding such a good lawyer and coming up with the money to pay them. Edit: to add to you second point: If "legal" and "fair" are so different, that's exactly why you can't rely on your intuition but need to consult an expert.