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My grandma died when I was 12 and my parents were forced to pay the voluntary church taxes my grandma did not pay in her last 20 years, most of their salary wen
by dessant 7y ago
My grandma died when I was 12 and my parents were forced to pay the voluntary church taxes my grandma did not pay in her last 20 years, most of their salary went to the pastor that month who didn't even issue an invoice.
The pastor was not required to request such payments from relatives as a condition for burying the deceased, but it's easy to prey on those who are left behind.
Taxing churches and cracking down on the rampant corruption around religious organizations cannot come soon enough.
- nashashmi 7y ago> my parents were forced to pay the church taxes my grandma did not pay in her last 20 years Can someone shed some light on how the church is able to "enforce" taxes not bound by legal doctrine?
- dessant 7y agoThrough manipulation and coercion. They were told by the local pastor that she wouldn't get a religious funeral unless those taxes were paid.
- mysterydip 7y agoCan you explain more about paying taxes to the church? I haven't heard of this occurring anywhere, but I know different countries have different rules.
- dessant 7y agoThere is a voluntary church tax paid by members of the Reformed Church in Europe. My grandma did not attend church in the last few decades of her life, and she did not pay this tax. My parents were forced by the local pastor to pay those taxes in order for her to get a religious funeral by the Reformed Church.
- akvadrako 7y agoSo you paid a mutually agreed price for a funeral. If you didn’t want their services you could have gone elsewhere.
- dessant 7y agoThe funeral was paid separately on top of the money the pastor coerced them to give to the church. There is no agreement involved when you're told your mother wouldn't be buried with what you perceive as dignity, and you're manipulated while in a state of shock and grief to think that the voluntary payment you're making is mandatory.
- defertoreptar 7y agoWhat do you think grandma would've wanted? Would she be mad at the church and felt entitled to be buried through their service despite not having been involved with that church for 2 decades? Would she have felt it was her children's duty to pay more than necessary to be buried a certain way? I'm not asking this rhetorically. I really am curious. We all want a dignified funeral for our loved ones, but did grandma make her wishes known?
- dessant 7y agoI don't think she has made her wishes known. She was religious, just not a churchgoer.