> is a choice, not to mention a huge responsibility. Actually, i think these two are inversely correlated. The demands from parents have become crazy for no ap

> is a choice, not to mention a huge responsibility. Actually, i think these two are inversely correlated. The demands from parents have become crazy for no apparent benefit. It's illegal to raise kids as they did 2 generations ago. It would become more of a choice if people at large relaxed a bit and let kids be kids or learn by themselves, or in tiny neighborhood groups.