You sound like you may fall into the category of having a brood later in life (the 50yo+ untethered sugar daddy demographic). IMO, unless you find a partner th

You sound like you may fall into the category of having a brood later in life (the 50yo+ untethered sugar daddy demographic). IMO, unless you find a partner that's going the same direction, you're doing the right thing while you're young. Its a nice perk that in modern times we can have children in our 50's and still live long enough to see them into adulthood (though maybe not see them raise a family if they follow in your footsteps). I think the trifecta you're looking for is.. No Kids, No Alimony... And NO CHILD SUPPORT PAYMENTS during the best years of your life. If they call you selfish, ask them if they regret their freedom of choice. Theres a good chance they were never free.