As a fellow-Asian, I usually like your contrarian commentary which brings 'our' experiences to this forum. But I've gotta say, this is starting to seem like so

As a fellow-Asian, I usually like your contrarian commentary which brings 'our' experiences to this forum. But I've gotta say, this is starting to seem like some variant of the good ole' days fallacy. I had brown parents who spent countless hours teaching me maths, and stressing me out quite thoroughly when I didn't get it and when I had less than stellar grades. Now an adult, and under medication to manage ICD/ADHD, I realize how all for naught all that stress was. More than that, I attribute my issues of having intimate healthy relationships to my eager brown parents who were never afraid to hand it to me when I fell short.