> Nothing he said is related to the usual talking points of incels. From my understanding, explicit, fatalist despairing of your sex life is the red/black pill

> Nothing he said is related to the usual talking points of incels. From my understanding, explicit, fatalist despairing of your sex life is the red/black pills to which incels refer. It is definitely an attitude to be concerned about, regardless of what labels you want to use, because it's a worldview that will reproduce itself without intervention. > Can't you garner sympathy for a person who is missing out on one of the basic human needs (emotional connection)? Do you think the advice to lose the incel angle (i.e. and actually admit the possibility of future relationships) was bad advice? That strikes me as more helpful than pitying him.