> An obituary is not written for you, it's written for the deceased person. Actually it is not. It's quite the opposite. The obituary is written and published

> An obituary is not written for you, it's written for the deceased person. Actually it is not. It's quite the opposite. The obituary is written and published for the living, to inform everyone of your death and to let family and loved ones express themselves. You are dead, so you don't care or read the obituary. the ones surviving you will handle that.