Reading quote 1: "...just relieved it was her and not me putting down a credit card at the bar to buy his drinks" I was like "wtf", but then reading quote 2: "P

Reading quote 1: "...just relieved it was her and not me putting down a credit card at the bar to buy his drinks" I was like "wtf", but then reading quote 2: "Plus, after years of paying for myself and my ex, it still seems like a good deal." I realized that she was in a toxic relation for 12 years. I mean, c'mon, 12 years only one partner to pay for everything, that's way too much. I know people who divorced faster because of one partner was lazy and she went through with it while having diagnosed for years?