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Put down your pre-emptive feelings of defensiveness. FFS, there's no shame in not understanding something. There is shame to be had in throwing around accusati
by EliRivers 7y ago
Put down your pre-emptive feelings of defensiveness.
FFS, there's no shame in not understanding something. There is shame to be had in throwing around accusations of privilege at people who understand something you don't.
People won't downvote you for not understanding. Some people will applaud you for saying you don't understand, up until the point they realise you're not seeking help in understanding, that you're not trying to improve your own knowledge and wisdom; that instead, you're trying to make yourself feel better by ascribing yourself some moral high-ground for not being one of those "privileged" people who understand something you don't. They might downvote you for being a passive-aggressive child about it.
- solipsism 7y agoSome people will applaud you for saying you don't understand I've been around enough to know how wrong that is. Do you actually believe this? Honest questions asking for explanation are almost guaranteed to result in a negative vote sum. instead, you're trying to make yourself feel better by ascribing yourself some moral high-ground for not being one of those "privileged" people who understand something you don't. Make myself feel better for what? Maybe I needed to include the /s tags...
- EliRivers 7y agoHonest questions asking for explanation are almost guaranteed to result in a negative vote sum. Boo hoo hoo. Oh no, lost some internet points. Anyone whose opinion is worth a damn will applaud you asking honest questions; especially here, on defensive poser central. Make myself feel better for what? Maybe I needed to include the /s tags... You've gone for the "I wasn't being serious" defense, pretending you didn't mean it. However, your post wasn't remotely sarcastic and contained far too much detail and defensiveness, with a tone taking itself very seriously. You're convincing nobody. What exactly do you now claim you were being sarcastic about? "The prose seems to resemble something dark and beautiful and meaningful"; that's sarcasm, is it? So you're saying it IS something dark and beautiful and meaningful? "And the bytecode just couldn't be more boring to me." Right, so you were saying the bytecode was some of the most interesting code you've ever read? If your post was sarcasm, you're truly terrible at it and should switch to irony or satire instead. Little bit of literary term privilege there for you to sarcastically pretend to object to. FFS, this is the anonymous internet. If you can't be honest with yourself here, where will you be honest with yourself.