Yes, I'm in the US, and yes, it was a murder. It was someone very close to me and the situation is one that I would rather not go into. I get it. I didn't get

Yes, I'm in the US, and yes, it was a murder. It was someone very close to me and the situation is one that I would rather not go into. I get it. I didn't get murdered. That's not the only way that someone is victimized by the violent death of someone they love. Again, there's more to it than I'm going to go into here, so if you could just cut me some linguistic slack I would appreciate it. EDIT: I hope this doesn't sound overly aggressive. It wasn't intended to be.