Your post feels callous to me too. The point of my post was that chronic lyme fearmongering made their relationship dysfunctional. Delaying proper diagnosis and

Your post feels callous to me too. The point of my post was that chronic lyme fearmongering made their relationship dysfunctional. Delaying proper diagnosis and treatment. It goes without saying that a physician overlooking cancer for years isn't doing a great job - by definition. But they are not miracle workers, and it's tough to help someone working against you.