You can be competitive and still have fun. In my sport, I train and enjoy competing as hard as I can. I find the highs I enjoy from winning over a player who

You can be competitive and still have fun. In my sport, I train and enjoy competing as hard as I can. I find the highs I enjoy from winning over a player who is a similar or higher skill level than me outweighs the disappointment of losing to someone I shouldn't. And it seems the better I get, the less often I seem to lose to people that I shouldn't. I enjoy seeing that progress and enjoy competing against better players. I've lost close matches and still enjoyed every second too.