The more self-effacing I make it, the more I try to put in that I think the trouble is only in my own understanding, the more mocking and sarcastic it seems to

The more self-effacing I make it, the more I try to put in that I think the trouble is only in my own understanding, the more mocking and sarcastic it seems to me and the more likely I think it is to be misinterpreted. I think this a textbook example of the four sides communication model https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Four-sides_model https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Four-sides_model