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I'm surprised I haven't seen a single comment say what ought to be the obvious: the easiest way to never see Facebook ads is to just not use Facebook. I should
by 1propionyl 7y ago
I'm surprised I haven't seen a single comment say what ought to be the obvious: the easiest way to never see Facebook ads is to just not use Facebook.
I should hope I'm preaching to the choir, I'm sure, but... quitting really isn't as hard as you tell yourself it is.
It's not as essential as you think it is.
- abhiminator 7y agoCannot agree more. Quit Facebook and its sister service completely (talking about WhatsApp; never really got around to using Instagram) after the 'View As' feature exploit last year that led to 50 mil user accounts' data being exposed [0], and I must say, I've never felt more calmer, tranquil or better, mental health wise. I feel our brains could do much better with a little less of constant bombardment of highlight-reel version of other people's lives. The psychological literature on the negative impacts of social media usage is only ballooning by the day, and there's never been a better time to quit Facebook. [0] https://www.nytimes.com/2018/09/28/technology/facebook-hack-data-breach.html https://www.nytimes.com/2018/09/28/technology/facebook-hack-...
- npsomaratna 7y agoAmen to this. I stopped using Facebook due to the same reason. If anything, my quality of life has gone up since then.
- tsimionescu 7y agoQuitting Facebook itself would help with what you are saying, but I am curious what you replaced WhatsApp/Messenger with. For example, I have good friends in other countries, and sending pictures and short texts is one of the best ways to stay in contact. We do talk over the phone occasionally, but not having a simple way to send pictures or links would pull us much further apart. Sure, email could be an option, but WhatsApp is just so much more convenient.
- amphibian87 7y agodiscord is really advanced Iove it you can do group video chat
- wfdctrl 7y agoSignal
- feanaro 7y agoSignal or Matrix (using the Riot client, for instance).
- aerique 7y agoFrom before the Facebook acquisition WhatsApp had gotten really embedded in The Netherlands (and the rest of Europe?) as a free replacement for paid SMS service. Not only because it was free but also more convenient for sending long messages, pictures, etc. compared to the MMS hellhole. I've been trying to get people on Signal but it's a struggle especially for older people used to WhatsApp. For a lot of them WhatsApp → Signal is a big step even though (for us) the apps are pretty much similar.
- yoran 7y agoAgree. Outside the small tech bubble around me, the vast majority of people use WhatsApp for all their messaging communication.
- tsimionescu 7y agoWhat I was curious about with GP's comment was more on the aspect of social/psychological effects of social media. I know Signal/Telegram/others could be used as a 1:1 replacement of WA/Messenger for the purpose of avoiding Facebook Inc. I was wondering if they found some other strategy to keep in contact with their close ones without using messaging in the first place, not replacing Facebook services with some other service.
- dm33tri 7y agoTelegram might be convenient, it's a middle ground between bloated Facebook things and "geeky" apps like Signal (I don't dislike it, but it's just unpopular).
- tomashubelbauer 7y agoI'd like to add that it is not necessary to leave Facebook to not use Facebook. I have a FB account and I'll never close it, because I like having my username on all online services I might use if once. That being said I only have it logged in at a home desktop, not my phone, not any work machine. I use it for like two minutes weekly, one to check a few specialty groups I'm a lurker in and two to co-admin a page with a group of my friends where I once helped promote a post because the UX of doing so is too shitty for normal people wanting to bother navigating it. Facebook has had no effect on my mental health and it has a marginal benefit of being a kinda up to date contact book, even if it is getting worse at that. But that's it. You can have a Facebook account and only use it when it benefits you and not Facebook. Edit: Oh and I use it in a Firefox Facebook container so I'm not at all worried about it tracking me online.
- commoner 7y agoAlthough you're not a heavy Facebook user, you still use it weekly. People who don't want to use Facebook at all would benefit from deleting their accounts, because leaving Facebook adds a hurdle that discourages them from returning to Facebook.
- squiggleblaz 7y agoWell, sure, but there's a difference between using Facebook heavily and using Facebook occasionally. It's not a binary. Indeed, you can even use Facebook once in a blue moon. For instance, you can log out on all your devices and set your password to something you've autogenerated but you haven't saved so you have to go through the "forgot password" process. Facebook wants to be addictive, but it's okay and possible to use it once every two or three months so you can add your great aunt and post holiday photos (so people know you're safe). And by using Facebook less, it takes away some of Mark Zuckerberg's power over you and our society.
- s_dev 7y ago>Oh and I use it in a Firefox Facebook container so I'm not at all worried about it tracking me online. You think that once you log in to FB in a container -- Facebook can't track you? Those container details are now appendage to your online fingerprint as far as Facebook are concerned. Containers only work if you don't actually log in to such services. The only sure way for FB to not track you is to not use FB at all -- even then it requires other steps too as they'll be building a shadow profile on you.
- blunderkid 7y agoExactly. The real reason why FB is evil is not because it makes a ton of money from data that you willingly provide it, its simply because of what it is - a platform that takes advantage of a human weakness - vanity, to keep you "engaged". It is an addiction that Zuck sells, pretty sure he knows it. The privacy bit is only a red herring and what should be the least of user's concerns. Just stop "using".
- 2sk21 7y agoI think you have summarized my thoughts exactly on this. In their quest for increasing "engagement", they have unleashed a monster.
- tanilama 7y agoYep...Not on their product. Although this is fascinating, the amount of attack/defense in our browser just trying to put a block of ad in front of you and the CPU cycles that are wasted, I don't think it apply to my case.
- gigama 7y agoSame thought, same choir. Stopped feeding their fidget spinner profit engine years ago. Have more interesting things to spend time on these days (like reading HN). Easiest way to quit was to add "facebook.com" to my LAN's pihole blacklist and delete their (tracking) app from my phone. The account is still there to reserve my name but it has no other real data.
- edf13 7y agoExcept your not actually blocking Facebook ads are you?
- phito 7y agoI never liked facebook so I never really used it, deleted my account 3 years ago. I always was (and still am) against their practices and business model. I have a hobby which is growing carnivorous plants and last year I started a small side business selling my extra plants. The entire community is now on facebook (before that it was mostly forums) and I had to reopen an account to be part of it. Sadly it is essential for some people. Not facebook itself, but the fact that it is the main social network makes it essential if you want to be a part of some communities. I hate that I have to use Facebook, but I don't have the choice. It opened so many more opportunities for me than when I wasn't using it, it has really been surreal and I've never felt more engaged and happy in my life. I wouldn't credit facebook for it because in the end, it's the people on it that brings me happyness, but there's no way I would have interacted with them without it. Of course if you don't have any hobbies/business that depends on it, deleting Facebook is indeed the way to go, but for a lot of people it's not such a black or white thing
- Jamwinner 7y agoIts funny, I have a few hobbies that have settled on fb as the central hub of discussion. Yet, a single friendship irl still yeilds me more info. If the caliber of person guiding my hobby feels facebook is the best forum, I might already be ahead of the pack. Stop making excuses for sidlining your personal integrity, you are now just another part of the problem.
- ryandrake 7y agoI think Facebook has been very successful at instilling FOMO in people. People are paralyzed by the fear that they will miss out on this or that if they leave, which is great for their retention. I quit using Facebook close to 10 years ago, yet I still have a robust social life, communicate regularly with friends and family, participate in hobbies (even ones who unfortunately moved their community to FB) and do all of the above without the unhealthy “like-obsessed” feedback loops. It’s great! But when you tell people it’s possible to live without Facebook, all you get are lame excuses about why their case is special and they couldn’t possibly do it themselves!
- StreamBright 7y agoAnd what do you do with the 100.000.000 websites using Facebook logins, SDK, like button etc.? I think you need to go a bit further than just not using it. You need to block the entire IP range and DNS to completely block them.
- commoner 7y agoThere are filter lists for ad blockers that can block Facebook's third-party web requests. Fanboy's Annoyance List and Anti-Facebook List: https://www.fanboy.co.nz/ https://www.fanboy.co.nz/ Fanboy's Annoyance List (source): https://easylist-downloads.adblockplus.org/fanboy-annoyance.txt https://easylist-downloads.adblockplus.org/fanboy-annoyance.... Fanboy's Anti-Facebook List (source): https://fanboy.co.nz/fanboy-antifacebook.txt https://fanboy.co.nz/fanboy-antifacebook.txt AdGuard Social Media filter (source): https://filters.adtidy.org/extension/chromium/filters/4.txt https://filters.adtidy.org/extension/chromium/filters/4.txt All of these work with uBlock Origin.
- StreamBright 7y agoThanks, I usually use PiHole with the lists merged into one and just block it at the DNS level.
- randiantech 7y agoAlthough I share hour feelings, is not that easy either. I have family all over the world, and facebook is the best way to get communicated with them.
- hamhand 7y ago127.0.0.1 connect.facebook.net 127.0.0.1 graph.facebook.com 127.0.0.1 staticxx.facebook.com 127.0.0.1 api.facebook.com 127.0.0.1 www.facebook.com 127.0.0.1 an.facebook.com
- _ikke_ 7y agoI typically use 0.0.0.0 rather than 127.0.0.1, then it's not even reachable.
- tempguy9999 7y agoGenuine question, it can't possibly be reachable on 127 anyway can it? Put another way, what's the difference between 0 and 127 here? What makes it safer? TIA
- rwnspace 7y agoNot OP but read about it on this hosts config [0]. From that page: > We prefer to use 0.0.0.0, which is defined as a non-routable meta-address used to designate an invalid, unknown, or non applicable target. > Using 0.0.0.0 is empirically faster, possibly because there's no wait for a timeout resolution. It also does not interfere with a web server that may be running on the local PC. [0] https://github.com/StevenBlack/hosts https://github.com/StevenBlack/hosts
- huhtenberg 7y agoFor 127.0.0.1 it will try to connect and fail, either right away or on timeout depending on the on-box firewall setup. For 0.0.0.0 it won't even try to connect (or fail instantly depending on how you look at it).
- breakingcups 7y agoI usually have a web server running on posts 80 and 443 on my local machine. Using 127.0.0.1 will make requests to Facebook end up there, which is not necessarily what you want.
- anoncake 7y ago> It's not as essential as you think it is. Please don't tell people you don't even know what their lives are like
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- gureddio 7y agoI suspected I'd enter the comments and see this sort of comment. I don't feel like the author is telling us how to block ads on facebook - they are just exploring the techniques that facebook use to sidestep ad-blockers
- markosaric 7y agoIt may be the easiest way but it's not that easy for people hooked on it. I still have an account but I rarely log in (perhaps couple of times per year and when I do it's with Firefox Containers and with cookies cleared after log out plus I block third-party connections from Facebook and its domains), but Facebook is more than Facebook. A lot of people I know spend way more time on Instagram, WhatsApp and Facebook Messenger then they do on Facebook itself so it will be difficult for them to not use it.
- JulianMorrison 7y agoThings I pragmatically need Facebook (including Messenger) for: - My martial arts classes post updates there - So does the community garden I help out at - Keeping up with family news, and directly talking to family - Keeping up with what's happening to my friends in the USA or other far flung places - Access to topical news that matches my political beliefs rather than being heavily centrist-biased and ignoring all the important stuff - Monitoring political campaigns and issue campaigns And honestly, good luck finding all that anywhere else.
- ChrisRR 7y agoCreate bookmarks directly to those pages and ignore the news feed.
- JulianMorrison 7y agoMissing the bit where I want the news feed.
- dangerface 7y agoEmail does all that.
- root_axis 7y agoThat reads to me like "I like the Facebook service and so I use it". Of course if you want to use Facebook then quitting Facebook isn't practical.
- JulianMorrison 7y agoI'd like it better with less evil.
- root_axis 7y agoThat's a universal platitude that could be applied to any profit-seeking company. At the end of the day you either regard Facebook as so abhorrent that you will refuse to use their services or not, but you definitely don't need to use them.
- mensetmanusman 7y agoThe same can be said of alcohol, but life is lived to its fullest when practicing moderation on many fronts :)
- tyingq 7y ago"It's not as essential as you think it is." I'm not able to avoid it. Since I can't make extended family members use something else, it's a source for family news. My family is large, both on my side and my spouse's, so FB isn't trivial to replace. Something that could scrape and mirror a curated "family news" would be cool. But given the rate of change at FB, it would be hopelessly brittle.
- aguyfromnb 7y ago>Since I can't make extended family members use something else, it's a source for family news. How did your family accomplish this 10 years ago? How valuable is the family news if you need it curated?
- tyingq 7y ago"How did your family accomplish this 10 years ago?" I don't see how that matters. I'm not going to be successful convincing 100+ people flung across the country to go back to how we used to do things. They like Facebook, and likely aren't interested in their crazy uncle's rant about Facebook. They post their news there, and not anywhere else. "How valuable is the family news if you need it curated" FB is my source for things like "who graduated", "who is pregnant", "who got married", "who got a new job", "how that horse on cousin Fred's ranch is doing" and so on. I like to know these things. By "curated", I mean something like a scraper that could pull out posts from family people and put it somewhere so I wouldn't need to log into Facebook and get exposed to a bunch of other stuff I don't want to see...and the pervasive tracking. I also mentioned it's probably not practical.
- egdod 7y agoI’m involved in a couple of IRL groups where Facebook is the only way events get announced. I don’t think there’s a good way to delete Facebook and still learn about those events.
- specialist 7y agoI'm anticipating a transition from filtering to scrapping. I've already switched to "reader mode" and RSS feeds as much as possible. Mostly for ad avoidance and battery guarding. I'm also anticipating applying differential debugging techniques to automatically compile ad blocking filter lists. View the top X sites via multiple personas, diff the content, anything static is more likely not ads.
- neoromantique 7y ago>It's not as essential as you think it is. It is if you are travelling often, especially in non-western countries. Rent in local Facebook groups is sometimes 2-3 times cheaper than AirBnB and alike, as well as large expat communities.
- celeritascelery 7y agoI do find it funny that so many on HN seem to wear this “I never use Facebook” as some sort of badge of honor.
- StacyRoberts 7y agoI want to second this. I never had an account and I've seen the deterioration of conversations among my friends from being about reconnecting positive experiences to complaints of what someone says on there all the time. Unfriending their relatives with racist rants. All the cake news. They don't realize the impact it's having on their lives. Facebook has become a justification to bring hate into our personal conversations. Their crazy aunt says something on there so they believe this makes it a public conversation, but I have no idea about that. Their debates are personal conversations had in public. Facebook has made the problems of talking about class, religion, race and politics inescapable. There's a reason we avoid those topics at holiday gatherings and business functions. They divide us and cause psychological injury. Fb has capitalized on this fury and drives profit from anger, dispute, hate and all these other emotions we don't want to have. These are the conversations that don't end and people want to win. They're live long disagreements where people won't change their mind and find equally violating people to fuel their rage and others to direct it at. These didn't use to be everyday conversations. Fb makes it easy to intact with those you disagree with violently and often. People you'd choose to avoid in real life but new can't because fb makes more money of pitting those two divergent personalities together and continually antagonizing them. It's hurting their mental health to be surrounded constantly by dissenting voices trekking then they are wrong for whatever reason. You're wrong. You're wrong. You're a bad person because you believe that. You're inconsequential. Someone said this thing about you. It's ruining people and I don't know how to get that awareness through to them. They're telling me more often they wished they'd just never gone on there and I say don't go back. Fb is like the abusive spouse they are addicted to. How do we save our friends and family from that abuse? How do we help them escape? I'm so sad for them and I feel helpless to save them from the peril that is so obvious from the outside.