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"Could sshd have solved this?" The phrasings listed seem to bring in the other person's choice and thereby create an oppositional/contrastive/comparative dynam
by erikerikson 7y ago
"Could sshd have solved this?"
The phrasings listed seem to bring in the other person's choice and thereby create an oppositional/contrastive/comparative dynamic in to the statements.
I write this having struggled with this sort of thing.
- gfodor 7y agoIt's hard to ask this way without coming off the way a teacher comes off to a student. If you're in a mentoring situation, this clearly works, but if you are a peer or a superior, it's dicey without perfect tone and body language.
- banachtarski 7y agoYour answer seems to suffer from the other alternatives. Still reads with an air of condescension.