Why is it upsetting? It isn't an instinct and isn't a basic law of nature (so it can't be derived), so at some point in time one has to learn it. So at some poi

Why is it upsetting? It isn't an instinct and isn't a basic law of nature (so it can't be derived), so at some point in time one has to learn it. So at some point they have to ask who they are. I am happy to see this community answer it, but so people don't feel afraid to ask questions, and so people can learn! Put another way: https://www.xkcd.com/1053/ https://www.xkcd.com/1053/