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This is a super good point. I keep going on about how in Japan (where I live) it is super important to be willing to do the things that are required when tryin
by mikekchar 7y ago
This is a super good point. I keep going on about how in Japan (where I live) it is super important to be willing to do the things that are required when trying to move to an in-group. You can't generally pick and choose ("I'll follow the rules that makes sense to me" doesn't fly here). So, you have put your finger on it. I would definitely do that if I valued the in-group I was trying to move to.
- tempguy9999 7y agoVery curious, can you give a few examples of these rules?
- RugnirViking 7y agoYou seem to be under the impression that somebody would say "I'll follow the rules that make sense to me" when entering a new group and suffer no negative social concequences in other societies. I really don't think picking and choosing which rules you follow would be appreciated anywhere.