OKC used to be a nice usable site where you could meet interesting people and talk. They also used to publish quite a lot of original research. They got bought

OKC used to be a nice usable site where you could meet interesting people and talk. They also used to publish quite a lot of original research. They got bought out by Match a few years ago, at which point it suddenly became swiping and now you can't message (or see messages) without having first matched with each other. tldr: Once sold, it went from an interesting place to a cesspit quite rapidly.