When we got engaged after 7 years I was still not allowed in the pics. Not until I was married. It caused family issues and they changed it next year for the fa

When we got engaged after 7 years I was still not allowed in the pics. Not until I was married. It caused family issues and they changed it next year for the favorite cousin and her fiancé. He also goes back and very badly crops others peoples heads onto her steps sisters exes. It was awkward as hell when her niece was old enough to notice her dad being cropped over last year. Taking pics without letting SOs is is understandable. Refusing to get to know someone because you might be gone is not. It goes much deeper but it’s too much to type.