Another thing is that EVEN IF your boss is giving you negative feedback about your job performance that does NOT mean you're incompetent. It almost certainly me

Another thing is that EVEN IF your boss is giving you negative feedback about your job performance that does NOT mean you're incompetent. It almost certainly means you're just not in the right job at the moment. A competent boss in that situation would try and find a better fit for you in the organization and if there isn't one help you find one outside of your current place of employment.