Okc has gone to speed swiping format like everyone else. You can only message someone you match with now, which is unfortunate because you used to be able to de

Okc has gone to speed swiping format like everyone else. You can only message someone you match with now, which is unfortunate because you used to be able to demonstrate some kind of attractiveness other than initial appearances. I get that women have a problem filtering the deluge of low-quality messages otherwise, but I wonder if there isn’t a better way to meter the problem than mutual swiping.