But how do hobbies help tho? Lets say I wanted to improve myself, leave my introverted hobbies behind and do something more social with my time. You still nee

But how do hobbies help tho? Lets say I wanted to improve myself, leave my introverted hobbies behind and do something more social with my time. You still need to create relationships with people in order to be invited to do those hobbies together. I should add that I am actually married, even though I've never once in my life ever hit on a woman. I got snatched up entirely by accident. So I've grappled with these issues but they aren't relevant to me anymore.