It's really good actually but it's not a differentiating factor at the dating stage. Dating is an emotional competition, marriage introduces practical considera

It's really good actually but it's not a differentiating factor at the dating stage. Dating is an emotional competition, marriage introduces practical considerations. You need to get past the likeability filter before any woman is even asking herself whether she'd settle down with you. If you present yourself as marriage material without succeeding at being dating material, you're selecting for economic opportunists ("gold-diggers").