Thank you for sharing this. It seems obvious that living and pushing through real hardships can have highly variable impacts on people, depending on the person

Thank you for sharing this. It seems obvious that living and pushing through real hardships can have highly variable impacts on people, depending on the person and the circumstances. I suspect that one element that makes such experiences more likely to provide positive long-term impacts is perceived or real personal agency during the events in question. If, during the difficult times, a person feels like they have some material influence over the outcome, and then the outcome is neutral or good, then it's more likely that the whole mess will end up being a net positive life influence. What do you think?