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What would be the optimal way of finding partners, or simply people you would like to spend time with, among 7+ billion people? Here's my answer* : train an A.
by MayeulC 7y ago
What would be the optimal way of finding partners, or simply people you would like to spend time with, among 7+ billion people?
Here's my answer* : train an A.I to "flirt"/"have conversations" with others A.I. Use reinforcement learning to tailor the A.I. to specific users.
Nice, everyone now has their own personal I.A. that can go on dates with other personal A.I. Thousands of them per second, if needs be. If the system works well enough that A.I.s "get along" as well as their human models would (/would not), you have found a very nice way to perform a "double blind" matching platform. Feed back the results after you go on a real date! "A.I." here could be anywhere on the spectrum of a simple regexp, to neural networks, to AGI.
Of course, in my experience, shared experience is a big part of what makes relationships (non romantic, and prob. otherwise), while previous experiences or interests are a way to discover things to do together (or recall shared experiences), so this can't replace getting out and sharing activities.
* TBH, that's just shower thoughts, but could turn into a fun research/week-end/startup/fediverse project (or just a writing prompt for a novel).
Edit: split this post in two different ones.
- MayeulC 7y agoYes, I could use some dating advice as well. But I find this post a bit self-pitying. Even if I find some of myself in the words expressed by the author, it is unreasonable to always ask the other party to do the first move. For now, I sort of stopped caring, and see flirting as a social sports of sorts (hone my social skills). Lots of missed opportunities (I generally don't know how to behave if things start going too well), lots of fun and new friends as well :) Edit: I sort of realize that I am catching up with the social interaction I didn't have at (high) school (too young, different countries, different interests such as tech stuff). Other people generally do the opposite and catch up on the skill side later. Either way, I'm still learning, as always.