> Sounds like this dude is insufferable and exhausting and probably presents himself as such on his dating profile. In my experience, people making these kinds

> Sounds like this dude is insufferable and exhausting and probably presents himself as such on his dating profile. In my experience, people making these kinds of statements often haven't any sense of humility, compassion or empathy, so it is likely you cannot understand even why he would make his post. Further, this same personality trait also seems lead to online ridicule of people trying to share their experiences online. > Edit: Before you start writing a treatise on the socio-economics of contemporary market-based internet dating in the age of diverstity.. just try the following: 1. Put up a crisp, clear picture of yourself dressed nicely with a smile. Put up a second clear picture of you doing some kind of interesting activity (hiking in the wilderness, doing art, playing with a puppy, etc). 2. Write a self-description that gives off vibes of you being a generally positive person, and relatively charming and perhaps a bit funny. If you can't be charming, you can at least be polite. If you're not funny, you can at least be lighthearted. Edit: It is also consistent with this personality trait to assume that your advice is desired, and to then provide that advice.