On top of this, once you're reliant on two incomes to pay the bills and you want to have kids, you're also dependent on your local support network (often parent

On top of this, once you're reliant on two incomes to pay the bills and you want to have kids, you're also dependent on your local support network (often parents) to raise your family. I have several friends who can't move because either one of them would have to stop working to take care of the kids or they would have to pay a near equivalent amount for a nanny.