>The alternative is to just be brutally honest and that way filter out friends who aren't ok with it. I found the inverse to be even more valuable. Finding fri

>The alternative is to just be brutally honest and that way filter out friends who aren't ok with it. I found the inverse to be even more valuable. Finding friends who are not afraid to be brutally honest with you when the situation calls for it is difficult, but worth it so much. Just make sure you actually can receive this kind of criticism first without taking it as a personal attack.