3 ms·

I've started to ask my girlfriend if "she wants me to solve her problem" or just "want me to listen" quite often. If you tend to fall into this trap, like I do,

by lawn 7y ago

I've started to ask my girlfriend if "she wants me to solve her problem" or just "want me to listen" quite often. If you tend to fall into this trap, like I do, I can really recommend this approach.

system2 7y ago
And how does she respond to you usually?
- chubbyrabbit 7y ago
  "I just want you to understand"
- lawn 7y ago
  Almost always she just wants me to listen.