>atleast ancient greeks and romans didn't seem to care about that. Eh you should do your own research- but I seem to remember reading about how being a top for

>atleast ancient greeks and romans didn't seem to care about that. Eh you should do your own research- but I seem to remember reading about how being a top for gay sex was fine, but being a bottom was very much not. So I certainly wouldn't say everyone didn't care about it. It was just accepted in a completely different (and non-reciprocal) way. If I had to extrapolate from that logic.. to put it bluntly "a hole is a hole" so no big deal for the top, but being on the receiving end probably had the same type of feminine stereotypes we can imagine people still have issues with.