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That's literally rape. If you consent to a sex act, that doesn't mean you consent to any sex act. If you "switch holes", or "lose the condom" or simply don't pu
by pluma 7y ago
That's literally rape. If you consent to a sex act, that doesn't mean you consent to any sex act. If you "switch holes", or "lose the condom" or simply don't put one on at all, without consent, that's a non-consensual sex act and thus rape.
- wolco 7y agoIf you lose the condom it doesn't make it rape. It makes you a loser who will probably be a social outcast. If you agreed before to kiss for 10 minutes but stop after 5 it doesn't make it rape either. If the person asks you to stop and you refuse that's rape. If she finishes first and asks you to stop and you continue that is rape. But you don't need to have a detailed conversation agreeing to everything beforehand. If you try something and the other person doesn't stop the action it is not rape. You could both agree not to do something beforehand and end up doing that act and it wouldn't make it rape unless one party refused that action during the attempt.
- ceejayoz 7y agoIf you agree to "we can have sex if you wear a condom" and then secretly take off the condom, that's rape. The sex being had was not consensual.
- wolco 7y agoIf you take that point of view and use a different example it sounds foolish. If we agree to have sex while she has a blindfold on but only if I wear a clown mask. If I take off the mask before sex and she watches the tape later she cannot claim rape. Or do you think that's rape as well?
- ceejayoz 7y ago1. I think it's extraordinarily disingenuous to compare protected vs. unprotected sex to whether or not one has a mask on. The consequences of unprotected sex - pregnancy, STDs, etc. - are potentially deadly. 2. Yes, your example describes non-consensual sex, i.e. rape.
- wolco 7y agoYour political belief on the importance protected sex shouldn't be part of what defines rape as a term. If someone has aids doesn't tell the partner and they die they could be charged with murder or assault. But never rape. If you think pointn 2 is rape then a husband promising to take out the trash if sex is performed and him not doing later makes it rape. Fraud perhaps.. you are missing the violence that rape puts the victim through.
- ceejayoz 7y agoRape doesn't need to be violent to be rape.