The disturbance of sound is the invasiveness it has on your sphere of control. It forces your control of your present attention to be taken away from you agains

The disturbance of sound is the invasiveness it has on your sphere of control. It forces your control of your present attention to be taken away from you against your will by others. This is why you might like the 'noise' produced by you voluntarily as in e.g. playing a 'busy office noise ambience' from YouTube through your headphones or speakers , while hating the 'real' office noises around you or even the same track played by your coworker.