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"but no chemistry on my side". Seems like you are trying to solve with your head (models & co) what is essentially a heart problem. If you had that chemistry,
by digital_voodoo 7y ago
"but no chemistry on my side".
Seems like you are trying to solve with your head (models & co) what is essentially a heart problem.
If you had that chemistry, I think you wouldn't be asking yourself so many (deep?) questions. Once you have that deep connection, almost everything else falls into place.
Source: been there, done that.
Good luck.
PS: how about posting this to Reddit? seems like a more appropriate audience and higher expected response rate than HN for such a question.
- life_choices 7y agoYes, I suspect your diagnosis is correct. Thanks for your answer. Where would you post this on reddit? I was hesitant to share the specific personal problem, because I wanted to focus on the decision process. In any case, if you know any community similar to HN quality for either "personal/relationships" discussion or decision-making, I would love to know.
- gerhenz 7y agoI agree with posting this on reddit, my suggestions are r/relationship_advice r/AskMen r/AskReddit r/AskWomen