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I here's hate when this happens and I can't imagine how you feel. You have very strong opinions, from the results and status of this thread I think this respo
by Forge36 7y ago
I here's hate when this happens and I can't imagine how you feel.
You have very strong opinions, from the results and status of this thread I think this response is coming from how strongly others are put off by your aggressive defenses and how you're voicing your disagreement with an article or response. (I want aware of Dang before your posts)
The substances on your posts seen very on point, however the tone makes your responses feel personal. I don't like hearing that I'm wrong, combined with a tone where I feel I'm a lesser, stupid, idiot, for having a mistaken brief immediately pushes me defensive. It doesn't matter if I agreed with you initially, if this tone is felt ok the first sentence: I'll never reach your substanive argument for your point to be made.
Your responses feel like an attack on Dang not a criticism of HN, this is encouraging others to defend him, and the site, because the principle feeling is a personal attack.
I'm worried that by posting I'll get that same for of response from you.