You just summarised how I feel whenever I ask a stackoverflow question. I wasn’t aware that politeness was banned but I avoid asking questions there even if it

You just summarised how I feel whenever I ask a stackoverflow question. I wasn’t aware that politeness was banned but I avoid asking questions there even if it means joining free node channels and waiting hours in hopes that someone answers my question. S/O has some very high quality responses but I actively avoid asking questions there because it feels over policed.