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It's like buying lunch. When your manager does it, you thank him. When your cow-orker does it, you think "what is this guy up to?"
by phjesusthatguy3 7y ago
It's like buying lunch. When your manager does it, you thank him. When your cow-orker does it, you think "what is this guy up to?"
- throwawaymath 7y agoWhy are you suspicious of a coworker buying you lunch?
- magduf 7y agoI sure would be. Why would someone spend that much money on me unless they're a closer relation? Buying small gifts for coworkers is one thing, but buying lunch is a bit much. I wouldn't spend more than $5 on a gift for a coworker.
- blaser-waffle 7y agoCuz he's making, presumably, the same amount of money I am (or in the same ballpark). So either he got a raise, or he has an agenda...
- MikePlacid 7y agoWhen my manager tried to pay for my lunch, I declined and paid myself (I am from Russia, we had no such tradition at that time). The feelings I had were a mix of: a) is he trying to make me a teacher’s pet? I am not a teacher’s pet; b) is he trying to show that he has some power over me except paying my salary? At lunch break? He has no power over me except paying my salary, I can well afford to buy my own lunch. An American visiting from other company was completely dumbfounded: Why have you paid yourself?? He is your boss, it’s his responsibility to pay when he invites you to lunch!! ...And I was completely dumbfounded observing his reaction: have Americans no pride?