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It takes a special kind of person to be happy with a cheap thing they paid way too much for.
by wavefunction 7y ago
It takes a special kind of person to be happy with a cheap thing they paid way too much for.
- incongruity 7y agoAs much as I want to applaud the wit here, the truth is that it really doesn’t - that phenomenon is quintessentially human. We (as a species) will go cognitive miles to avoid actually facing embarrassment or admitting to being fooled. Your thing might not be overpaying for a diamond and it’s unlikely you can see your own instance(s) but I’m sure you have seen it in others on the regular.
- nyolfen 7y agoyes, but we love them all the same
- papln 7y agoHonestly I think the diamond-ring culture is deeply unhealthy - it creates an artificial large resentment event right at the beginning of a commitment, that may destabilize the whole relationship.
- hombre_fatal 7y agoI've seen threads on r/relationship_advice and r/TwoXChromosomes where women are desperately distraught over issues having to do with the ring their fiancé/husband bought them, it really does seem like unnecessary hardship. Though, as a man, figuring out your partner's expectations of rings and weddings (and family and children and ...) is part of the dating process. You really shouldn't be blindsided at the engagement phase. I'm reminded of a friend from high school who is got divorced after finding out his wife of two years didn't want and never wanted children. His defense was "it just never came up!"